Ibubapa, pesanlah pada anak-anak agar jangan buat menarik atau mengalihkan kerusi ketika seseorang hendak duduk. Gurauan ini boleh mendatang mudarat besar pada mangsa.
Unintentional Joy Killer
Parents unintentionally compare their children’s lack of achievement with another who is more successful. It can be devastating, especially to our children. One happy moment can be utterly ruined by one careless word of comparison.
Creating Responsible Children
When school’s out, our children will be spending a significant amount of time at home, over a long period of time. This can be a headache for unprepared parents —and an opportunity for others. One of the opportunities we can seize is to develop their sense of responsibility. Find out how.
When You Think You Have Time
When was the last time you really spent time with your children? Did you know that many older parents miss taking care of their children? Are you aware of how much time is left for you to do just that? Time is shorter than we think.
Are You A Bossy Or Inspiring Dad?
Let’s inspire our kids to achieve greatness rather than impose endless do’s and don’ts. Instead, encourage them to be themselves. Trust their abilities and give credit and encouragement when needed.
Digital Parenting and the ‘Screen Time Myth’
Parenting is one of the most difficult and vital jobs in the world, but it is sometimes overlooked. It is frequently seen as a natural ability. However, experience and everyday observations tell us that parenting is a never-ending challenge.
The Happy Giver
Common sense will tell us that a person receiving something will be happy with their gift. Technically, we should be happy when we receive new toys, the latest mobile phone or a lovely dress. But, is this really true? Ultimately, who’s happier? The giver or the receiver?
Negative Effects of Criticisms
Most parents see criticism as a necessary tool to do the job. They want things to be done within the expected behaviour, time and standard and to encourage and motivate children to do or behave better or to remove themselves from damaging habits and behaviour. However, the children may feel otherwise.
10 Ways To Raise Your Son To Be A Gentleman
As parents, we are responsible for raising our sons to be men who treat women with respect, love and dignity. Here are 10 ways to raise our sons to be gentlemen.
RM or AM/PM?
While our responsibilities to our work or our business are important, we know we’ve crossed the line when we have to use money to transact love and pay for the lost time with the kids. A better strategy is to strive to find the right balance between work and family.
“Bukan Adik Yang Buat!” – Pentingnya Memupuk Budaya Kebertanggungjawaban dalam Keluarga
Apabila ada masalah dalam keluarga, soalan pertama yang diajukan kebanyakan ibu bapa ialah, "Siapa yang buat ni?" Ia kemudiannya diikuti dengan siri kata-kata kasar dan tingkahlaku yang tidak rasional. Apabila keadaan tidak menyebelahi mereka, ramai ibu bapa akan "menyalahkan" dan mula mencari “pesalah”. Mujurlah kita boleh memperbaiki keadaan ini dengan mewujudkan budaya kebertanggungjawaban di rumah.
Instil a Culture of Accountability in Our Family
When something goes wrong in the family, the first question asked by most parents would be, “Who did this?” It is often followed by a series of harsh words and irrational behaviour. When things don’t go their way, many parents go on the “blame” mode and start looking for the offenders. Fortunately, we can reverse the situation by creating an accountability culture at home.
Kepada Ayah: Praktikkan Pesanan Luqman al-Hakim Kepada Anaknya
Luqman al-Hakim merupakan seorang yang disebut namanya di dalam al-Quran yang terkenal dengan nasihat-nasihatnya kepada anaknya sehingga Allah turunkan satu surah yang dikenali dengan Surah Luqman.